Monday, January 11, 2010

Everyone Deserves a Second Chance


“She was on death row. She sat in a cold shelter kennel, on the concrete floor, watching; waiting; as others were taking from their kennels and adopted. She never thought her day would come. And it wouldn't have, if it weren't for Black Dog Second Chance Rescue Organization. We absolutely love the cattle dog breed- they are often misunderstood- all they really want is to please their owners. And when their owners turn them into the scary shelter, they become confused. Molly was no exception. She was confused. And sick. She had heartworm.”

Those anonymous words tugged at my heart as I read them. I was cruising the internet to see if I could find a dog to replace the hole that Suzie left in Jim’s heart. Every time Jim looked at a dog since Suzie went to the Rainbow Bridge, I felt the heartfelt truth of the saying: Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.

And, so it was to be. A three-year old Australian Cattle Dog named Molly Jo (“Molly” for short). She came to the Black Dog Second Chance Rescue Organization (BDSC) in Amherst, New York, via Kentucky. She was in a “high kill” shelter when the BDSC rescued her. She was taken in by two loving foster parents and received all the medical treatment, love, and attention necessary for her to regain her health and her esteem.

However, the BDSC doesn’t allow dog adoptions outside a 45 minute radius of Buffalo. This is not bureaucracy or isolationism; this is to ensure that the dog remains within a radius where, if the adoption doesn’t work out for some reason, the new owner can return the dog safe into the arms of BDSC who will try again and again to find the dog a forever home that is just right.

Nevertheless, I thought I would take a chance. Taking a chance would be true to one of my life mottos, courtesy of the hockey-great Wayne Gretzky: “We miss 100% of the shots we never take.”

Fast forward and we were approved for a home visit, to ensure that Molly and we would feel comfortable with each other, and BDSC would feel comfortable that Molly was going to a good home. Molly’s foster parents even offered to make the two and a half hour trip to Toronto for the welcome visit! How very kind and generous we felt them to be.

At 11:00 this morning, a car drove up to the front of our house. Jim was so excited he was like a kid on Christmas morning. Up the walk came two of the most special people on earth, Cathy and Paul, Molly’s foster parents. Both of them were crying as they led Molly to our door. They had fallen so in love with the little girl dog that they were heartbroken to leave her. Hugs between virtual strangers were exchanged, in the spirit of love and kinship for a little dog who deserved a second chance in this life.

As I sit writing this, Molly is slowly becoming used to us, although she spends most of her time at the door waiting for Cathy and Paul to return. It will take her a few days to get used to us and to recognize that being in our home, where there are hearts full of love, is her blessed second chance. Less than eight hours later, she is giving Jim and I tentative kisses, proving truth in the wonderment: “Who knew that dog saliva could mend a broken heart?”

We are grateful to BDSC and to Cathy and Paul, angels on earth, for giving us a chance to show Molly that the world is a loving and safe place.

And to Molly, thank you for today. Thank you for starting to heal the wounds of a broken heart.



4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thank you for giving Molly a second chance at life. I am the volunteer transport coordinator who arranged the volunteer transport (some call it the Under Hound Railroad)that brought Sister (now Molly) to Black Dog Second Chance. With out BDSC, Sister(Molly) and her pup would not have had a chance. Black dogs don't often get adopted in the Midwest and South, even though James does his best to save them all! I look forward to reading updates on Molly as she adjusts to her new home!
Thank you again for taking her in!
Molly Quinn
Transport Coordinator for those in need

Anonymous said...

Thank you for giving Molly a second chance at life! I am the volunteer transport coordinator who set up the volunteer transport (some call it the Under Hound Railroad) that brought Sister (Molly) and her pup to Black Dog Second Chance from Kentucky. Sister (Molly) and her pup would not have had a chance in Kentucky. Black dogs are not often adopted in the Midwest and South, even though James, at the shelter, works tirelessly to save them all!
Thank you again for giving Sister (Molly) a second chance!

Molly Quinn
Transport Coordinator for those in need.

Unknown said...

I have had the pleasure of dealing with Black Dog Second Chance rescue in the past. I have never met more caring, honest people in my life. If I was ever in need for a dog, BDSC would be my first phone call. I hope that one day I have the time to be able to foster for BDSC and maybe, hopefully, possibly bring joy to the heart of another dog looking for a family to love. I would like to help them out just as much as they help out the dogs that they rescue. Ginny and all those involved... keep up the great work! You will be blessed always!

Anonymous said...

I want to take this opportunity to personally thank Cathy, and her husband, Paul, who committed so much of their time, energy, and LOVE to Molly and see it through to the end of her adoption. This was no easy task for them. They helped her through her heartworm treatment which was a month long process of crate rest and leash walk only; they also fell in love with her during the process and in the end had to turn over the leash as though they were giving up one of their own pets- which is not an easy thing to do. I commend them on that! They not only took a two and a half hour trip to Toronto for a home visit (then back), they took a journey with their heart.

Brenda, thank you for opening up your heart again to love. It is not easy to do after losing a four legged friend. But you found the strength to do so, and you did so with a dog that was "not so perfect" in many people's eyes. (though perfect in ours) Thank you for adopting her so that we may continue to save more like her that would certainly perish in shelters otherwise.

Ginny, on behalf of BDSC.